The most common sexual mistakes of men
There are things about my partner (boy) that I don't like how he does in bed and I don't know what to do. Some help? Thank you.
Men and women function differently in bed, although each person is a world and, instead of differentiating them by sex or gender, we should simply speak of "people". But at the same time it is true that sometimes we tend to follow a similar pattern, and it is interesting to be able to use it in our favor and learn from it.
That is why, below, we are going to comment on the most common masculine “mistakes” that stand out, and of which couples complain, at the time of the sexual encounter, and that end up harming the chemistry of sex.
Neglect the treatment of the person
Oddly enough, a relaxed conversation in a pleasant environment is stimulating for a woman. It is important to take time to talk, say seductive things, make the woman feel special, caress her, etc. Personal treatment should not be neglected. This point is more stimulating than some biceps that are marked on the shirt.
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Not taking care of your appearance
It seems that women always have to be the ones who invest in underwear, perfume, manicures, etc. They also like to see a man dressed in good style, with clean and manicured hands, and good underwear. Taking care of personal image is also a thing for men.
Go fast
Men usually have a high sexual drive that is often like a pressure cooker, and women tend to have a more progressive and slow rhythm. We must balance the rhythms, if we make a comparison, we can say that they would be a gas oven that heats up and cools down quickly, and they would be an electric oven that costs more to heat, but also to cool. Consequently, you should not go fast.
think masculine
The woman should not be thought of as if she were a man. When it comes to getting excited and enjoying sex, men are more visual and genital. On the other hand, women tend to be more sensual, and prioritize the sense of touch, smell and hearing instead of the visual.
Give up after ejaculating
It is not good to leave the moment you have ejaculated. The most important thing first is to be clear if both have finished sexually, and have had a good time, because sometimes the relationship ends when the man finishes and the woman's pleasure is not taken into account. In addition, just after finishing, the mistake is often made of going to the bathroom to clean up, or get dressed, sleep or other similar behaviors, which break the intimate environment where a lot of complicity can be generated and be a space to share.
believe the porn movies
Relationships should not be expected to be as they appear in the movies: There are very marked stereotypes in pornography, which indicate very marked sexual behaviors of how a woman should act in bed and how a man does. This causes that, instead of focusing on getting to know the other's body and tastes, and expressing one's own, they sometimes simply try to reproduce the sexual scenes observed, turning the sexual act into something mechanical and superficial. The most important thing is to be attentive to what the couple needs and enjoy the encounter.
In view of these common mistakes, it is important to identify what each of us can improve in our relationships to ensure that the sex we enjoy and share is of even higher quality.
